That's my view also, we learn (not necessarily from an individual, but from experience) to lie, when we are young.Lightning Rod wrote:any organism will seek reward and avoid pain
It's one of the reasons I see a liar as a coward, as he's more concerned with avoiding the "pain" than with his responsabilities, and his "role" in "society".
He's weak.
I think there was a comment earlier in the thread about liars hating liars, I don't know if they do or not, but it would make sense, they must be aware of their actions, and their weakness, and I'd think in many cases that must eat them up inside, so I would imagine them as often being self-loathing.
Not that they get any sympathy from me, as it's their choice, they were weak, they were cowardly, they chose to decieve, for personal comfort, rather than acting for the greater good, so if it does eat them up inside they deserve it.
Pain is over rated, as a child we fear it, but as we grow older most of us begin to realize that "pain" is as often a warning sign, as much as anything else.
I think that's why some of these people can over come a lot of "pain", you know, the "mind over matter" stuff, because it often doesn't hurt as much as we think, it's just there to tell us "Hey, stick that hand any nearer the fire and it's going to get burnt off"
As a child we're learning, we're finding out where our thresholds are, so we're often afraid of the "pain", and this, in many cares might lead a child to lie, but an adult should know better, he should know the consequences of his actions, and therefore shouldn't be afraid to take his "pain" when he has too, for the greater good of everyone else.