jim the librarian.

[Rat Bag]

Yeh, hoity toity alright!

I'm not really coming into the boyfriend thing. I don't know what you need, I was only kidding about the laid thing.

You might not think you are egotistical, that's the funny thing about the ego. It doesn't let you see your egotism.

Now, don't take me wrong, I'm not trying to criticise you, just pointing out what I see.

i'm a very caring soul

egotistical statement

Also, you seem to be justifying yourself a great deal. Let it go, dude. Why does this interaction with Jim bother you so? Are you upset that he implied you are inexperienced? Are you upset that he doesn't really want much to do with you? Who cares? If there is to be no connection between you two then move on. It is your ego that is hindering this progress. Can you see that?

Your ego says It's Jim's fault that we won't be friends, not my fault at all, I did all I can do to instigate a friendship, but he thinks he's too cool for me or something. He's a loser anyway, I'm too good for him. I don't have anything to learn from this interaction, but that Jim, boy he has some serious self-reflection to do. What an asshole! I won't bother with him anymore

Now try shutting that thing up for a moment and just move on with a still and silent mind. You will find everything pans out a lot smoother.

[K&D]

no is see what your saying because after i sent the response, before you sent yours i asked myself the same questions you asked me in the begining of yourse.

sure, i'm egotistical, i'll give you that, you have to be to a certain degree, if you actually think you want to change the status quo...but i think i think i'm egotistical in a different sence then i think the whole world will revolve around me....its more like i think i got better ideas than some people...i think thinking the world revolves around me is more of a selfish thing not a egotistical thing.

no, i think i originally cared because he was sort of right about me being in my head a lot, i mean i'll give him that, i care so much anymore, just thought i'd clarify about the whole thinking the world revolves around me....i guess i should have said that i felt the two ideas were different, being selfish vs. being egotistical.

i noticed that when i've talked to guys about the issue of him telling me i need a boyfriend, the answers are different then those of the women i've talked to...i mean down to a T...women will say, "what and asshole" and me are like "...well, maybe he has a point" i just think its intresting...

sometimes you need to justify as a way of clarify, trust me i thought what he said over you know. then i regrouped and some thoughts did change and a lot of them stayed the same.