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kids - Barry Fitton's in hospital
Posted: April 29th, 2009, 1:22 pm
by judih
Barry's in the hospital. He went in for a procedure and all went well till the drs. discovered they'd left in some gauze and poor Barry had to undergo additional surgery.
He's in need of our best healing vibes. Please send them to Amsterdam. His partner, Anja, is quite tired and more than anxious and could use our cyber support. Barry's asleep and drs are allowing him to wake up naturally - they say they're waiting till Monday before interfering.
(litkicks people and Studio8 people, we all need to gather together to send massive good wishes)
Posted: April 29th, 2009, 7:03 pm
by Barry
If his name's Barry he's gotta be a good guy.
Well, not really. But massive healing vibes and good wishes to him and his from this outpost.
Peace,
Barry
Posted: April 29th, 2009, 9:25 pm
by stilltrucking
sending cyber waves of healing and rest and joyous awakening
Posted: April 29th, 2009, 10:13 pm
by judih
thank you for joining in. Barry's one of the few people who actually follows his heart and lives as a poet, performing at festivals, clubs, radio. Well, we all know that it ain't easy.
Hopin he's gathering his strength for the next round.
Posted: April 29th, 2009, 10:40 pm
by Doreen Peri
Uh oh... I didn't know how it was going... thanks for letting us know, judih! An additional surgery? because of gauze? that's just terrible luck....
Sending prayers and healing energy to Barry!!!!
Please keep us posted when you hear some more news. I've also emailed him and if I hear anything will let you know.
For those of you who aren't familiar with Barry's work, here's a link to his website...
http://poetryperformance.nl/
Posted: April 29th, 2009, 10:45 pm
by judih
yeah, doreen, yeah. If he answers your e-mail, it'll be a good day!
meanwhile, i'm writing to Anja. I don't want to bother her too much, but I'll check in tomorrow.
Good idea putting up his link.
Posted: April 30th, 2009, 9:09 am
by Nazz
Healing vibes sent from me to Barry.
I enjoyed some of his poems. They actually kind of mirror how I'm feeling these days-- more the direction I want to go.
Posted: April 30th, 2009, 9:31 am
by mtmynd
What's the latest news? I trust all will be well as the good vibes and blue light brings additional comfort in his times of reflection...
Posted: April 30th, 2009, 4:30 pm
by Arcadia
green candle for old-litkicks-Barry & family! (I vaguely remember him writing in the atmosphere of a poet who wrote in minimalistic-second-bright colors and painted in blacks, greys & whites).
& thanks judih for posting the link to his poems, I´ll read it during the long weekend.
what´s gauze? gasa or some kind of mist? in my mind sounds near ghost or goes
Posted: April 30th, 2009, 6:21 pm
by mtmynd
es gasa...
Posted: April 30th, 2009, 11:12 pm
by judih
no further word as of this morning 6:08 a.m. israel time. i'm imagining anja sitting chanting, taking breaks by crossing her fingers and then going back to guard him at the hospital. She surely must be on a 24/7 watch.
thanks arcadia dear for your green healing candles and thanks mtmynd for increasing the group power.
i'll let you know if i find out any more info. Let the man awaken if he's got the power. And let him decide to use his power to wake up. or, in short, sending some more power.
Posted: May 2nd, 2009, 2:22 pm
by judih
Update! Saturday evening, May 2nd, Israel time
Good news...
Here's what Anja wrote:
An update. This has been one of the longest and most horrible weeks in my life.
After all the complications after the operations everything calmed down on sunday, monday. They stopped the sleeping medication on monday.
On tuesday and wednesday everyone was worried he didn't wake up. I was really really scared. When I rang the i.c. yesterday they told me his awareness was nearer the surface.
So I decided to take Footsteps and Amsterdam nights (Barry's books - note from judih) with me. Yesterday I red him from footsteps. His eyes were open he didn't follow with his eyes but he blinked twice when asked.
Today his eyes were closed. but when I began to speak they opened. They still don't follow. When I started my one woman show with songs like Barry can u hear me (Who) and Hello Barry, this is Anja Barry (Louis Armstrong) his eyes widened and his eyebrows went up I'm sure he smiled as well round the oxygen tube. And when I said what are you flirting with me? He did it again the smiling. And I've got witnesses .You cant imagine what a blink of the eye does for ones wellbeing. I feel so much lighter. All because of something like a glimpse of hope.
The doctors said on wednesday that they wanted to wait till next monday to make any plans. Good. The recovery of his body goes well. While Barry is so stil his wounds are healing.
Rebecca, Barry's youngest daughter will arrive at Schiphol tomorrow morning.( from Rochdale ) Someone who doesn't want to do anything else but to share this with me for 100%.
And that is what I want to do as well. She is all a daughter should be and more. Becca and my daughter Sammie like each other as well. So there are at least two strong women close to me who can help me to help Barry. And all the old friends from both of us who are there for us and Becca. Nearby or far but all the time.
Thank you all for thinking of Barry and for sending him positive energy in all those different ways. I'm sure every little bit will help him to come back.
Maybe you can pass this news to others who want to know.
Love and Flowers
Anja
___________________________________what a relief! Here's hoping for a good and full recovery.
Posted: May 2nd, 2009, 2:31 pm
by stilltrucking
yes
I am hoping too
thank you for the good news update
Posted: May 2nd, 2009, 2:44 pm
by Arcadia
Posted: May 6th, 2009, 2:26 pm
by judih
Update - May 6
I got a report from Anja after Barry's daughter, Becca came for a visit:
"Every day is a bit better. Is very emotional & exhausting. Was so nice for Becca to see her father and communicate with him.
Monday they took the tube out of his lungs. He is breathing by himself. So he is trying to talk. Difficult to understand after 10 days without practice.
Every time is better but slowly. He still got his sense for humour."
Anja
_____________So, it's good.
Health to all.