but because I have something nice to say
don't think I am coddling or enabling anybody.
Deb, it appears as tho some folks here have a beef with you.
It has nada to do with your specific opinion on any issue, but more to do with your style of interacting. You can alienate people and they are giving you some feedback.
I have to respect the consistency and intensity of their feelings and perceptions. So you might want to try and distill some of it.
like on the other thread about the home town ad-hoc war memorials,
you didn't like Jack's remorsefullofslights and feints, and I can understand. He pulled that slipshot on me, too. But hey, it doesn't realy work so well if ya get incensed and tell him to get off yer thread. Seriously. Cause whatever he said, his culpability or demeaner, you was de meaner. I mean, let him exasperate ya. Be like the bamboo, tensile and bending. Too stiff and unbending and you will break.
![Shocked :shock:](./images/smilies/icon_eek.gif)
Ya might try another tack. You are getting some feedback here. It's a good opportunity to learn something.
Mowsy wowsy
puddin and pie
ver·si·fied the boyz
and made 'em cry