Friday Rant
Posted: July 29th, 2005, 2:33 pm
I'm kinda pissed at these punk-ass terrorists in London. One of them had his freebies cut in May... did that piss him off? They're a group ofmid-20's fucking assholes using Islam as an excuse to bomb the innocents.... not that the U.S. hasn't done that more than once in Iraq and Afghanistan, but still...
I don't understand why some people immigrate to countries and ignore the culture of that country. It seems that if they fled their own country's that they would embrace the values of the country that is taking them in. There's an old proverb that says "When in Rome do as the Romans do," and it is one that I believe is a good one. I can't imagine moving to another country and ignoring all that that country does socially. It would be a stupid thing to do.
These acts that dominate the news lately remind of some years when I was in the moving business I received a phone call from a woman who spoke with a Mid East accent. She was looking for some used boxes to pack up her things. I listened to her and told her that our company had some used boxes and I could get her some at a reduced price (a common practice). I seemed to have loosened her up during our business talk, and had asked her why she was leaving Phar Lepht..? It was this city she was leaving but this country. She told me how offended she was by the behavior of the girls she saw on the streets - their short skirts, their brief attire, their makeup made them cheap looking... on an on she went. I mentioned the weather here, but quickly caught myself - she had mentioned earlier about being from Iran, a climate much hotter than our desert clime.
After she got those things off her chest, she politely apoligized to me for sounding off... and I assured her that it didn't bother me. I felt rather kindly towards her and the 'foreign-ness' she must have felt in this country which is so different from her own. I offered to give here a generous handful of used boxes after learning where she lived in the city... not an expensive area of town... and quite close to my own home. I let her know that it wouldn't be any trouble for me to drop the material off at her apartment since I lived so close.
She hestitated a bit and then said she could not open the door for me to give the boxes to her as her husband was not home. I smiled at that but said I could simply park the stack near her front door... no problem. She again hestitated... well, Okay she said still a bit nervous about me being on the other side of her wall.
I arrived at ther apartment and took the boxes upstairs and knocked on her door. She said hello thru the closed door and I told her who I was and I will leave... her boxes were there. She thanked me. I left. It was a bizarre cultural exchange for this American.
I've often looked back on that one experience since all the terrorist problems of 9/11 and beyond. Cultural differences are not something any of us have much control over... it's in our genes, it's in our blood, it is something engrained in us since our birth.
Can a person that is from a '360' culture from our own ever feel a sense of belonging..? I imagine most can for a short while... the tourist mentality at work. But when the party is over and the foreigner discovers that their cultural upbringing may hamper the opportunities withing the new country, when the foods and drinks, the entertainment, when the chances of finding a mate that one can relate to are rare to non-existent.... these things have to make one aggravated.
In the case of the London terrorists... this aggravation has got to be compounded by knowing they live in a society that aids in the Iraq war, that considers Israel an ally and is mostly non-Muslim with no intention of changing their own cultural upbringing. Imagine living in that scenario... where you don't fit and feel that you don't belong. My female 'friend' I spoke of above knew that feeling and left the country.
Thsi may be a small world that we all live upon... and thru transportation and communication, it is one small world, but as our species multiplies, so does culturalization and this smallness more and more does not allow (mentally) for all of us to co-exist without offending our so-called neighbors.
These are times of very dramatic changes and getting more dramatic daily. The world seems to be spinning out of control and due to this phenomenon we reach out to our governments and religions to subdue the insanity and bring a sense of restored peace to our lives. Our culturalizations are being threatened from the immediacy of television and the internet, but it is that one thing - culturalization that makes us what we are. It defines us not only within our own neighborhoods but defines us a nationalities and as religious believers.
But it is all being questioned. A proud Muslim is questioned about his faith. A proud Christian is questioned about her faith. A proud American is being questioned as to his countries path. North Korean communism is being questioned. The list is long, the questions even longer... cultures are being questioned as to their own authenticity. The same for religions. The wealthy are accused, the poor beg for understanding, the ignorant hide within their shells, the brilliant ones cannot convince others... where is not the answers, but the answer?
People can take only so much mental abuse before they revolt. History has shown that. Every social revolution was from the disgust of the people. We can only live so much and so long within boundaries that eventually we revolt. It may not be a world shaking revolution but this time it may be... our small world is pressuring the seams of containment and the rips and tears are revealing so much more than what we are used to. The people will win despite our losses, because if we didn't believe this one thing, freedom (and I don't mean capitalist rip-off-your-countrymen-and-the-world freedom), we have no other reason to exist.
Cecil
I don't understand why some people immigrate to countries and ignore the culture of that country. It seems that if they fled their own country's that they would embrace the values of the country that is taking them in. There's an old proverb that says "When in Rome do as the Romans do," and it is one that I believe is a good one. I can't imagine moving to another country and ignoring all that that country does socially. It would be a stupid thing to do.
These acts that dominate the news lately remind of some years when I was in the moving business I received a phone call from a woman who spoke with a Mid East accent. She was looking for some used boxes to pack up her things. I listened to her and told her that our company had some used boxes and I could get her some at a reduced price (a common practice). I seemed to have loosened her up during our business talk, and had asked her why she was leaving Phar Lepht..? It was this city she was leaving but this country. She told me how offended she was by the behavior of the girls she saw on the streets - their short skirts, their brief attire, their makeup made them cheap looking... on an on she went. I mentioned the weather here, but quickly caught myself - she had mentioned earlier about being from Iran, a climate much hotter than our desert clime.
After she got those things off her chest, she politely apoligized to me for sounding off... and I assured her that it didn't bother me. I felt rather kindly towards her and the 'foreign-ness' she must have felt in this country which is so different from her own. I offered to give here a generous handful of used boxes after learning where she lived in the city... not an expensive area of town... and quite close to my own home. I let her know that it wouldn't be any trouble for me to drop the material off at her apartment since I lived so close.
She hestitated a bit and then said she could not open the door for me to give the boxes to her as her husband was not home. I smiled at that but said I could simply park the stack near her front door... no problem. She again hestitated... well, Okay she said still a bit nervous about me being on the other side of her wall.
I arrived at ther apartment and took the boxes upstairs and knocked on her door. She said hello thru the closed door and I told her who I was and I will leave... her boxes were there. She thanked me. I left. It was a bizarre cultural exchange for this American.
I've often looked back on that one experience since all the terrorist problems of 9/11 and beyond. Cultural differences are not something any of us have much control over... it's in our genes, it's in our blood, it is something engrained in us since our birth.
Can a person that is from a '360' culture from our own ever feel a sense of belonging..? I imagine most can for a short while... the tourist mentality at work. But when the party is over and the foreigner discovers that their cultural upbringing may hamper the opportunities withing the new country, when the foods and drinks, the entertainment, when the chances of finding a mate that one can relate to are rare to non-existent.... these things have to make one aggravated.
In the case of the London terrorists... this aggravation has got to be compounded by knowing they live in a society that aids in the Iraq war, that considers Israel an ally and is mostly non-Muslim with no intention of changing their own cultural upbringing. Imagine living in that scenario... where you don't fit and feel that you don't belong. My female 'friend' I spoke of above knew that feeling and left the country.
Thsi may be a small world that we all live upon... and thru transportation and communication, it is one small world, but as our species multiplies, so does culturalization and this smallness more and more does not allow (mentally) for all of us to co-exist without offending our so-called neighbors.
These are times of very dramatic changes and getting more dramatic daily. The world seems to be spinning out of control and due to this phenomenon we reach out to our governments and religions to subdue the insanity and bring a sense of restored peace to our lives. Our culturalizations are being threatened from the immediacy of television and the internet, but it is that one thing - culturalization that makes us what we are. It defines us not only within our own neighborhoods but defines us a nationalities and as religious believers.
But it is all being questioned. A proud Muslim is questioned about his faith. A proud Christian is questioned about her faith. A proud American is being questioned as to his countries path. North Korean communism is being questioned. The list is long, the questions even longer... cultures are being questioned as to their own authenticity. The same for religions. The wealthy are accused, the poor beg for understanding, the ignorant hide within their shells, the brilliant ones cannot convince others... where is not the answers, but the answer?
People can take only so much mental abuse before they revolt. History has shown that. Every social revolution was from the disgust of the people. We can only live so much and so long within boundaries that eventually we revolt. It may not be a world shaking revolution but this time it may be... our small world is pressuring the seams of containment and the rips and tears are revealing so much more than what we are used to. The people will win despite our losses, because if we didn't believe this one thing, freedom (and I don't mean capitalist rip-off-your-countrymen-and-the-world freedom), we have no other reason to exist.
Cecil