shake a fist!

[gypsyjoker]

are we done
having fun
should I smoke a cigarette

here is where I am going with your story Erato, (i suppose every woman must have a name, that's who you are to me me amiga, an idyll muse, thank you for taking an interest.)

So here is how I am deconstructing your post, there is this guy at work who has been recklessly staring at your inky dinky litttle ass and darting thirsty glances at your breasts. is that the guy you met on line, it must be him how else would he know about the size of your ass, and then the board room.

wait is this some kind of twisted sado maschistic raymond chandler holly wood crime novel.



I don't get it.
"Just like a frail, always holding out on you" The Big Sleep

[hester_prynne]

"that soiten air of savoire faire......"

Indeed, I think when we are called a loser, (which I often am) it's more of a projection by the caller of one of many possible things, love, jeolousy, frustration, low self esteem, usually it's more about them having a crush on you, or wanting to steal your power somehow....I mean, look at me, drifting along with no job right now, nothing coming in really, but prayers and hopes for a break. Think about how hard it is to not let it bug me due to my circumstances! Well Hell, I'm no f'ing loser!!!! No Sirree!

I think that the one being called the loser just needs to really be conscious of their own reaction...is it stoking my ego because I know it's really about them, is it taking my ego down and making me unsure?, you know, what's your reaction...that's about all you have to work with. If your reaction is defensive, then why? If your reaction is to get comfort from others, well hell, why not...in fact i'm sorry the asshole called you that!

H

[westcoast]

thanks hester

i was pissed. he's a HUGE loser who huffs and puffs around the internet like a whoopie cushion out of control. i exit those situations to use my time for productive pursuits instead of wasting it arguing with ignorant a-holes.

cheers,
~westie

[mnaz]

Yeh, I know what you mean. Definitely not worth the time and energy. Like trying to reason with a programmed, belligerent megaphone at times.

[gypsyjoker]

sadly, it was a real encounter...
but, i'm loaded for bear and he's gunna be a rug on the boardroom floor

How so?
Do you know him?
Do you work with him?
Or is that figuarative language?

[westcoast]

oh my... so many questions..

1) He is a writer at another site
2) He is a bully with no true insight or value to offer
3) I haven't met him real time; nor would I ever have any desire to
4) I could "bag" his ass on a figurative buffoon hunting expedition, but have better things to do with my precious time


~westie

[gypsyjoker]

Anybody who asks me so sweetly that if I have a moment to explain Husserl to her deserves all the questions she can get.
Or was it quantum physics?


Thanks for the answers.

I got a guy here who has a morbid fascination with my dear dead mother's anus. Took me a while to deal with that. Took me a while to shine that on. There is a trucker's term "CB Rambo" to describe a driver that hides in the bushes and talks hate and discontent on the radio. There is or was one in Las Vegas, he keeps the drivers stirred up, they all start cursing and threatening him. The guy loves it, the more he agravates everyone the more fun he has. He thinks he anonymous, but everyonce in a while a couple of drivers triangulate on the signal and you don't hear the Cb Rambo no moe. But there are more to take his place.

I think it is best to ignore him. shine it on. Not give him the pleasure of playing his game.

Somebody here wrote a thing on the Art of Trolling interesting thread. About two years ago, I will see if I can find it if you are interested.


PS
I would have deleted the above post if Theda and Mark had not replied to it.