Jack, our household is actually more like gorillas than chimps or bonobos. There is a magnificent silver-back male that rules with wisdom and he likes to be in charge. I on the otherhand, like to make him happy, and as a result, he protects me and is on my side no matter what the circumstances.
I really don't want bonobo-hood. I don't want to rule the roost with such a mighty rooster strutting about. It is not my nature or his to make this a matriarch ruled place. He wants me to be me and all that entails. It has worked for 38, almost 39 years. Let him face the wasps on the deck with his trusty WD40 while I watch from the door.
